Pregnant and found ex on Tinder ? unplanned maternity and feeling pretty miserable.

Pregnant and found ex on Tinder ? unplanned maternity and feeling pretty miserable.

I’m 26 weeks into an unplanned maternity and feeling pretty miserable. My ex that is 50; dumped me at 9 days as he discovered out I happened to be expecting, didn’t wish any longer kiddies etc. We’ve stayed (interestingly) on good terms, because I’ve made an attempt to when you look at the hope that the lightly lightly approach could make him come round.

This early morning we woke to your news he’s got been seen on Tinder and had been sent a display screen shot to show. This can be really upsetting once we had been together just 3 times ago, and I also have always been instead ashamed to acknowledge we now have nevertheless been having intercourse [emoji20]

He understands I’m heartbroken in regards to the split up. Our relationship ended up being good therefore we had been delighted. He admits this too. I simply feel therefore harmed he can’t also wait another a couple of months to maneuver on before the child is born and show me personally that bit of respect. Making such an endeavor to actively do it so is merely damaging. personally i think actually utilized and stupid, but We still love him. Why!

Do I state one thing to him, or perhaps is it simply maybe maybe not worth every penny? I recently variety of feel he ought to know that i am aware. But he’s such a narcissist it’d probably just wind up finding its way back on me[emoji20] x

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39 weeks 5days pregnant. and hes dumped me.

Sorry to be therefore dull but he could be making use of you while he understands he is able to get their leg over. There’s absolutely nothing worse then unrequited emotions. Place an end to it now, it will just get harder the longer it continues on. Then they will, they wouldn’t mess you about, big hugs if someone wants to be with you

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As PP’s have stated, stop sex that is having him. You’re the main one that’s likely to get harmed, he demonstrably does care that is n’tJust pay attention to the infant. Usually do not contact your ex partner, make sure he understands and then contact you if he would like to start to see the infant.

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As PP’s have said, stop sex that is having him. You’re the main one that’s likely to get harmed, he demonstrably doesn’t care.Just pay attention to the child. Don’t speak to your ex lover, simply tell him simply to contact you if he would like to begin to see the child.

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This. Additionally make sure he understands as soon as the appointment is always to signal the delivery certificate, you later for not being on it so he can’t blame. Provide the infant your surname, it’ll be easier when you look at the run that is long additionally get through the CMS ( or whatever it is called now) to obtain first-rate web site to study appropriate upkeep when child arrives.

It won’t be occurring once more. I’m already too harmed by this and everything else that he’s done. And I’m therefore furious with myself.

I simply didn’t understand whether or not to talk to him about this, simply tell him exactly how it is made me feel. Or do i recently cut him down and get quiet without any explanation.

It’s a tremendously state that is sad maintain at 50 and 35 x

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Therefore sorry to hear that you’re going right on through this Hun I would personallyn’t even mention allow him produce a fool of himself on tinder. Ensure that it stays civil but be dull you are worth more that that. Xxx

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just just What an awful situation you are experiencing to cope with – giving you hugs this evening.:sadhug

I’m happy to observe that you are receiving good quality supportive replies on your thread.

Natalie maybe you have accepted in your heart that the partnership is finished? Have actually you’d any conversations along with your ex in regards to the future along with his part as a dad?

What about help for you personally at this time – have you got any friends or loved ones whom you could confide in and who is able to give you support using your maternity?

It could be all challenging to just accept that relationship is finished, particularly when there was a son or daughter on your way, but keep chatting with us only at netmums and then we’ll give you support at all we can.:hug:

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